You’re not mediocre, so don’t settle for that in life. Stop sifting through dating sites hoping to get lucky, or drop hints around your partner expecting them to feed your lust. If you want it, dream it, envision it, you can have it. If your dating status or sex life isn’t where you want it to be, let’s change it.  

I can’t tell you I got a PhD in psychology or spent years talking life coaching courses. My path was slightly different. After getting married at 17 to leave a religious sect, I took my need for personal growth in my own hands and ended up in Las Vegas “a kid in a candy store” likened my roommate schoolteacher-turned-Dominatrix. People go to Las Vegas to lose themselves or find themselves. I lived a conventional life and unconventional, tried different styles of relationships, partners, and experiences. Then I went through years of self-reflection, sex work, dominatrix work, spiritual work, shadow therapy, inner child awareness, therapy, coaching, meditation, and I even squeezed in a Masters, all on the search for fulfillment. I both lost myself and found myself, and many of you can relate. 

Matt Kahn, one of my favorite teachers, said when life shatters and you stop trying to pick up the pieces is when it all finally comes together. Although each of us will travel a different road, all paths lead back to the same place – YOU. Many are still looking for our forever partner to navigate through life with because that is when we feel life reveals itself the most. If you’re nodding your head I want you to  know you’re deserving and capable, and the universe is on your side. If you want it, it will happen, and I am sharing my knowledge, support and process with you because I know it works.