Sex Industry – Acronyms, Glossary, Lingo, Codes, Terminology

  • AAMP Apartment Asian Massage Parlor, a residential apartment instead of a commercial storefront usually where sex acts can be purchased

    AAMP or AMP Asian-American Massage Parlor (more politically correct acronym)

    ABC American born Chinese

    ABJ American born Japanese

    AFF Adult Friend Finder (a popular USA dating website)

    AFF Asian Friend Finder (a popular Asian dating website)

    Agency a business/company that handles bookings, advertising, screening, and phone calls for escorts

    Aircon BBBJ + Hacks (a sweet mint) Example: When the masseuse asks, "want aircon?" if yes, she puts one ‘hacks sweet’ into her mouth and start giving a blow job 

    Amazon A masculine female, tall and strong

    AMP Asian Massage Parlor

    Analingus licking anus, anal rimming (Oral stimulation of anus)

    Anal Rimming Oral stimulation of anus.

    Anti-Sex Pervert These are the "real" perverts, the people who are against the concept of healthy men engaging in sex with willing female partners

    AR Anal Rimming (Oral stimulation of anus)

    Around the world Analingus and Fellatio

    Asian Cowgirl Girl on top, squatting

    AR Ass Rim, Anal Rimming

    ASAP As Soon As Possible (not sex related)

    ASP Adult Service Provider

    ASP alt.sex.prostitution newsgroup

    ATF All Time Favorite

    ATM Ass To Mouth

    Aunt Flo Menstruation

    AVN Adult Video News/Awards, a porn industry convention and and awards show

  • Babyback Petite, young, attractive Asian

    Backpage An online database where escorts post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort, typically faster service, lower prices, and many of the prostitutes are trafficked and/or managed by pimps

    Bad Boy Report A website where providers can report a rip-off client, dangerous client, a stalker, etc.

    Bait and Switch Person who shows up is a different one than advertised

    Baja Sur Genitals From the spanish "the low south"

    Balloons Breast implants

    Bareback Sex without condom

    Barracuda A professional prostitute who's only purpose is to separate you from your money as quickly as possible, preferably without giving you anything in return

    Batin (Malaysia) Groin massage, but sometimes means Handjob

    BBBJ Bare Back Blow Job (oral sex without condom)

    BBBJTC Bare Back Blow Job to Completion (oral sex to orgasm)

    BBBJNQNS Bare Back Blow Job No Quit No Spit

    BBBJTCWS Bare Back Blow Job to Completion with Swallowing

    BBBJWF Bare Back Blow Job With Facial

    BBFS Bare Back Full Service (sex without condom)

    BBS Barber Shop

    BBW Big Beautiful Woman

    BCD Behind Closed Doors

    BDSM Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism.

    Beret A condom.

    Beso Negro Anal Rimming

    BF Boy Friend

    BFA Big Fat Ass

    BFE Boy Friend Experience

    BGR Boy-Girl-Relationship

    Birdwatching BBBJTCWS

    BJ Blow Job (oral sex on a man)

    BL Body Lick

    Blackhole Anus

    BLS Ball Licking and Sucking

    Blue Pill Viagra

    Blue Steel Viagra

    Boutique Agency An agency that typically does not use fake pictures, upsell, or rip guys off, more catered to repeat customers

    Brothel A business establishment where men can stop in and pay for a sexual service

    Brown Shower Defecation on your partner

    BS Body slide Service where woman may slide her body on yours using oil, or Nuru

    BS Body Scrub

    BSD Big Swinging Dick

    BSW Black Street Walker

    BTW By the Way

    Butterface Everything looks good, but her face

  • Call Agency An agency that typically employs hundreds or even thousands of escorts, who call-in and call-off, and a client can call and usually have an escort delivered to him within an hour or so

    Call Girl Outcall provider usually implies call type agency

    Cash and Dash takes the money and runs

    CBJ Covered Blow Job (oral sex with a condom)

    CC Roman Numeral for 200. Roman numerals sometimes used for fees. (Roman Numeral converter)

    CC Credit Card

    CC Rider Full service provider costing $200 or less.

    CCL Concentration Camp Look.

    CD Cross-dresser: transvestite, a person, and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite sex especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification.

    CDS Covered Doggy Style

    CFF Chinese Friend Finder (a popular dating website)

    CFM Come Fuck Me, usually refer to the look of a person.

    CFS Covered Full Service (sex with condom)

    CG Call Girls

    CG Casino Girls

    CG Club Girls

    CH Crazy Horse, SF Strip Club, LV strip club

    Cheong Hokkien word. Originally means Charge. Used as going out for some happening stuff.

    Chump A man who gives his money and/or his attention to women without getting any pussy in return. Largely a phenomenon experienced by American men when dating American women. Don't be a chump!

    CIM Cum in Mouth

    City Vibe An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort

    Civilian A woman who makes herself available for sexual encounters but not for financial gain. May be less discreet than a provider and more interested in a relationship.

    CL Craigslist, a popular classified ad website where escorts have been known to advertise and otherwise promote their availability.

    Client A person who purchases or receives prostitution services from a provider

    Clockwatcher A term for a provider who counts the minutes until the session is over.

    CMD Carpet Matches Drapes (typically a natural blonde)

    CMP Chinese Massage Parlor

    CMT Certified Massage Therapist. A professional masseuse.

    COB Cum on Breast

    COF Cum on Face

    Collar and Cuffs match Pubic hair matches natural hair-color (redheads, blondes)

    Completion Orgasm e.g. She gave a bareback blowjob to completion.

    Completo Spanish for "complete", usually meaning with or including anal sex.

    Cover Condom

    Covered Various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid diseases (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. (e.g. Covered Blow Job means a condom was used.)

    CHHFS Covered Half Hour Full Service.

    CG Cowgirl girl on top facing you.

    Craigslist A popular classified ad website where escorts have been known to advertise and otherwise promote their availability.

    Crime scene action Sexual activity during her period.

    Cruising Looking for prostitutes while driving.

    Cups of Coffee How many times a release or orgasm happened

  • Dance and Dash A rip-off. She shows up, takes your money, doesn't provide, might offer to "dance", and leaves.

    Date A session with a prostitute.

    Date-Check A third party website that acts as a pre-screening service, but is more like a classifieds for providers and clients to connect and network

    DATO Dining at the O, Anilingus, oral stimulation of the anus

    DATY Dining at the Y (Performing oral sex on a woman)

    DDE Doesn't Do Extras (PS only)

    DDF Drug and Disease Free

    DDG Drop Dead Gorgeous

    DDP Double Digit Penetration (pussy and anus), or just DP

    Deep Throat Fellatio where the whole length of the penis is "swallowed"

    Defender A poster who defends or "comes to the rescue" of a provider who has been reviewed poorly, regardless of whether the review is accurate

    Delta Omega Gamma DOG.

    Deposit A provider requires an upfront payment in advance of a session.

    DFE Dead Fish Experience

    DFF Dead Fish Fuck

    DFK Deep French Kissing

    DIY Do It Yourself (masturbation)

    Doggie Man behind girl, girl on hands and knees.

    Doggie Style Man behind girl, girl on hands and knees.

    Donation Payment to a provider

    Doubles A threesome with two girls and you

    DP Double Penetration

    DP Digital penetration

    DS Doggy Style

    DSL Dick Sucking Lips

    DT Dining at the Toes

    DT Deep Throat

    Dungeon A place where dominatrices and clients or just plain civilian people can go to use a variety of BDSM sex apparatuses

  • ECCIE a review board for clients and providers to screen and connect with one another

    Ed Zachary disease A woman with an unattractive face

    Ellie LE, Law Enforcement

    EMA Extra-Marital-Affairs. Affairs after marriage

    EMP European Massage Parlor (white girls)

    Enhancements Breast implants

    Envelope Often cash payments for a provider are placed in an envelope. Rather than handing her cash directly, or discussing money, the envelope is left in a conspicuous location for the provider to pick up as she leaves (outcall), or after the hobbyist leaves (incall).

    EOM End Of Message

    Eros An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort

    Escort A woman who is paid for her companionship, a temporary companion for hire

    Escort Mall An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort

  • Face painting Man ejaculates on woman's face

    Facial Cumming on partner's face

    FBSM Full Body Sensual Massage

    FFF Refers to the strategy of "Find them, Fuck them, Forget them"

    Fire and ice a blowjob switching between hot tea and ice

    FIV Finger In Vagina

    Five-O A police officer (uniformed or undercover).

    FJ Foot job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes.

    FJ Fuck Job

    FK French Kiss, French Kissing

    FKK Frei Körper Kultur (German brothel / nudist club)

    FL Free Lance

    Flake, Flaky Errant behavior, often used for providers who no-show and/or have scheduling issues.

    FOB Fresh Off the Boat (Asian immigrant recently arrived in the US)

    FOBU Fat-Old-Bald-Ugly

    FOTC Fuck Of The Century

    FOV Finger Outside Vagina

    FR Field Report, Fuck Review

    French Oral sex on either party.

    French Kissing Kissing on mouth with tongue contact

    French Without Oral sex without condom

    FS Full Service (complete sex)

    Full meal deal Full Service, Vaginal intercourse to completion.

    Full Service Intercourse

    FUTB Finger Up The Butt

  • Get Comfortable Get completely naked.

    GDP Garota de Program (working girl, on the program)

    GF Girl Friend

    GFE Girl Friend Experience, typically BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG

    GF3 Girl Friend Experience w/all three holes

    Glove Condom

    GND Girl Next Door

    Golden Shower Urinating on your partner, urine play.

    Greek Anal sex

    GRO Guest Relations Officer (The Philippines) Generally refers to women in the employ of night clubs and similar establishments. A polite reference to working girls.

    GS Golden Shower (urination play)

    GSM G-Spot Massage

    GV Geschlechtsverkehr = Intercourse (in German)

  • Half and Half Oral sex followed by intercourse.

    Happy ending A handjob (usually) or blowjob after your massage

    Hardwood Floors Clean shaven pussy.

    Hat Condom

    HC Health Center

    HC High Class

    HDH high dollar hottie

    HE Happy Ending

    Herb Friendly Is amenable to marijuana use.

    HH half hour

    HHHJ Half Hearted Hand Job.

    Hidden Charges A provider takes the advertised fee upfront, but midway through the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.)

    Hindu Massage (Argentina) The woman contracts her vaginal muscles during sex to squeeze you to completion.

    HJ Hand Job

    HM High Mileage

    HME Honeymoon Experience (lapdog heaven)

    Hobby The patronizing of prostitutes.

    Hobbyist A man who visit prostitutes with some frequency, and calls himself a “hobbyist” because seeing prostitutes is his “hobby”

    Hooker Prostitute

    Hostess Club A lower end strip club where bargaining for sex acts with the dancers is acceptable, and some activities may occur on premises

    Hourly A hotel or establishment you can rent by the hour instead of paying for a full night

    House An underground brothel, often with trafficked and/or underage women

    HR Hand Release (a hand job)

    HSW Hispanic Street Walker

    HTUMA Her Tongue Up My Ass = The famed rim job

    HWP Height and Weight Proportionate

  • IMHO In My Humble/Honest Opinion

    Independent, Indie An escort who works on her own, without an agency affiliation. The escort manages her own calls, bookings, advertising and finances.

    Interpreter Condom (e.g. She spoke French without the aid of an interpreter = BBBJ)

    IPO Initial public offering: used to denote the public introduction of a new provider, usually via a review.

    ISO In Search Of

    Italian Penis rubbing between butt cheeks.

  • Jack Shack Refers to an establishment (massage parlor, lingerie modelling) that is not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available.

    Jimmy Hat A condom

    John A man who patronizes prostitutes.

  • Kitty vagina

  • Lapdog Person who worships providers to excess.

    L/A/S Looks/Attitude/Service: A subjective ranking system. Each criteria separately ranked, from lowest (1) to highest (10). Examples: 2/9/8 = Unnattractive, but very friendly and good sex. 10/5/4 = Model material, but a poor attitude, and mediocre sex.

    Landing Strip Description of pubic hair

    LBFM Little Brown Fucking Machine

    LC Local Chinese

    LCN Latin Chica Network (The chica's mental telepathy network system, which is faster than any electronic network could ever be, although the data does experience major corruption issues during transmissions)

    LDL low dollar looker (opposite of HDH)

    LE Law Enforcement

    LEO Law Enforcement Officer

    LFK Light Face Kissing

    Little Blue Helper Viagra

    Little Blue Pill Viagra

    LK Light Kissing (closed mouth)

    LMP Licensed Massage Practitioner

    LOL Laugh Out Loud

    LOS Land of Smiles (refers to Thailand)

    Lot Lizards Prostitutes who operate out of truck stops or other trucker hangouts.

    LSB Lap Sup Bar (low class bar)

    LT Long Time (usually overnight)

    L1, L2, L3 UTR Slang for Handjob, blowjob, full service

    LTR Long Term Relationship Madame Proprietress of an agency.

  • Mall, Escort Mall A website that advertises many different providers. The providers may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with each other, or with the mall.

    Mamasan Female manager of a massage parlor.

    Man in a boat, little man in a boat Clitoris

    Massage Parlor A residential apartment instead of a commercial storefront usually where sex acts can be purchased

    MBR Multiple Bell Ringing (MSOG)

    Mediterranean Anal sex e.g. "She took me on a trip to the Mediterranean."

    Merkin Pubic hair wig.

    MG Massage Girl

    MIB Man in blue, law enforcement officer.

    Mileage A subjective term that describes value for money and/or how accommodating she is. Good mileage usually means she either charges less than average, provides better L/A/S than average, or both.

    MILF Mother I'd Like to Fuck.

    Mish Missionary position, Man on top during intercourse

    Missionary Man on top, girl on back.

    MJ Massage Job

    ML Make Love

    ML Massage Lady

    MM Man made breasts

    MMF, MFM, MFF Threesome designations. e.g. MMF = male, male, female MFF = male, female, female.

    Mohawk A thin rectangular strip of pubic hair.

    Monger Short for W h o r e monger. One who frequents prostitutes.

    MP Massage Parlor

    MP Multiple Pops (multiple releases)

    MPA Massage Parlor Attendant

    MSOG Multiple Shots on Goal (multiple releases)

    Multiple Pops She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed)

  • National Blacklist A website where providers can report a dangerous client and be aware of activities that put providers at risk

    NCNS No call, no show for appointment

    Newbie A novice hobbyist or novice provider.

    NGP Non Genuine Photos

    NMG No-Money Guys. Mongers who travel on a strict budget.

    Nooner A lunch-time or afternoon session, popular with married hobbyists.

    No-Show Escort or Client never shows up for an appointment, does not contact in advance to cancel or warn.

    No-Touch No touching allowed. (e.g. No-touch Jack shack, no-touch strip club)

    NQBC Non-quitter, but covered. CBJ to completion.

    NQBS Non-quitter, but spitter. BBBJTC and spits your ejaculate.

    NQNS Non-quitter, non-spitter. BBBJTC and swallows your ejaculate.

    NSA No Strings Attached.

  • O, Os Orgasm, orgasms.

    Off-the-clock Activities that occur with a provider that she chooses not to charge for. (e.g. "We had lunch off-the-clock")

    OKP Or-Kui-Poh - It means a Female pimp in Hokkien, a Chinese dialect, but sometimes people use OKP/OKT to describe a supervisory person who will guide you in your selection of girls in a spa.

    OKT Or-Kui-Tao - It means a Male pimp in Hokkien, a Chinese dialect, but sometimes people use OKP/OKT to describe a supervisory person who will guide you in your selection of girls in a spa.

    OMFIAMP One Man's Food Is Another Man's Posion, (pronounced "Ohm-Fam")

    ONS One Night Stand

    OTOH On the Other Hand

    Outcall The girl provider comes to you

    Out, Outed Private, personal information on a hobbyist or provider is made public. e.g. Someone's real name and address is posted to a public forum.

    OV Oralverkehr = Oral Sex (in German)

    OVN Overnight

    OWO Oral With Out a condom

    OWOTC Oral Without Condom To Completion

  • P4P Pay for Play. Refers to the concept of paying for sex.

    Papasan Male manager of a massage parlor.

    Party Hat Condom

    Pearl Necklace Man ejaculates on woman's neck and/or chest

    PFF Pussy For Free (A non-existant fantasy)

    Pimp A man who solicits clients for a prostitute.

    Pinay a Philippine Girl.

    PIV Penis in Vagina

    PL Pathetic Loser

    PM Private Message sent via the Forum's Private Message service.

    PO Phone Operator

    POF Plenty of Fish

    Pooner A hobbyist who is immersed in the hobby culture. e.g. He may be very involved with the review boards and/or private exchange of information on providers and the hobby.

    Pops, multiple She allows you to have more than 1 orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed)

    POS Pussy on the Side

    Preferred 411 A third party date check service where both providers and clients can be screened by the service. Then provide their “handle” to potential clients and providers so they can view likes/dislikes of one another to ensure compatibility and screening him

    Price per act More common with streetwalkers and call agencies, girl charges a price per act, a BJ is one price, full service is another price, kissing is a different price, and so on

    Prostitution Trading sexual services for items of value or money

    Provider Prostitute

    PS Private Show (Dance)

    PSE Porn Star Experience

    Punter British slang for a man who engages in sex with prostitutes.

    PV Private Viewing (Dance)

    PW Pussy Whipped (A guy controlled by a girl because she gives him sex)

  • R & T Rub and Tug (a massage followed by a hand job)

    RA Relaxation Assistant

    Raincoat Condom

    RAW Sex without condom

    RB myredbook.com (a former review site based in the San Francisco Bay Area, now shut down)

    RCA Reverse Cowgirl Anal

    REQ Request - Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains a request for information.

    REV Review - Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains review of a provider.

    Reverse Cowgirl Girl on top facing away.

    Reverse Half and Half Intercourse followed by oral sex to completion.

    Reverse Massage You massage her.

    Review A critical evaluation of a provider. May include information on her looks, attitude and service

    Review Boards An online database where clients and providers openly chat about prostitution, advertise services, and read specific details about how a date with an escort might go

    Reverse Oral The client performs oral sex on the provider.

    Rimming Analingus

    RLD Red Light District

    RMP Russian Massage Parlor

    ROB Rip Off B i t c h

    ROFLMAO Rolling On (the) Floor Laughing My Ass Off!

    Roman An orgy situation

    Roman Shower Vomit play

    RPG Role playing games

    RSK2 A third party date check service where men can pay for membership, be screened by the service, then give his “handle” to potential providers so she can screen him through the service

    RTF Return To Fuck

    RTFF Read the Fucking Forum

    Russian Penis rubbing between breasts/titty fuck

    Russian In Australia: Short sex session, aka a "Quickie"

  • Safe Sexual activity in which various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid disease (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. e.g. All activities were safe.

    San Juan Capistrano BBBJTC and she swallows.

    Sandbag, Sandbagger A subjective term for a review (or reviewer) that misleads the reader by giving unwarranted praise to a provider.

    Sans Without. e.g. She provided french sans beret = BBBJ

    SC Strip Club

    Scat Defecation on your partner or feces play.

    Screening A provider or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client

    Seeking Arrangements A classifieds style website that men and women can meet one another for a no-strings-attached type of relationship, usually for money

    Self-post A provider or agency poses as a hobbyist, and posts a highly positive review of herself or agency to increase business.

    Self-Service You masturbate e.g. "It was a self-service jack shack" = no contact with the dancer, but the man can masturbate.

    Sensual Massage Not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available.

    Session Paid time spent with a provider.

    Sex Worker Catch all phrase sometimes used to describe prostitutes. May also be used in the context of strippers, peep show workers, topless waitresses

    SFH Sex for hire

    SG Street Girls

    Shemale Transexual, particularly one who is living as a woman, but hasn't had SRS. Penis may or may not get erect

    Shill An insider posing as a satisfied customer

    Shill A hobbyist who writes unwarranted positive reviews in exchange for discounts or special favors from an agency or provider

    Shots on goal Shot On Goal (one release)

    Sixty Nine, 69 Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously

    Slam, Slammed An unwarranted harsh review or abusive criticism of a provider

    Slixa An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort

    SO Significant Other

    SOF Shit on Floor

    SOG Shot On Goal (one release)

    SOMF Sat on my face

    SOP Standard Operating Procedure

    Soixante neuf 69: Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously.

    SOMF Sat On My Face

    SOP Standard Operating Procedure

    South of the Border Genital Region

    Southern France BBBJ

    SP Service Provider

    SPA streetwalker stroll: San Pablo Avenue in Oakland, CA

    Spanish ATM[/b][/blue] Ass to Mouth

    Spanish In Australia: Penis between breasts

    Spinner Very petite, thin girl.

    Sponge An absorbent item inserted into the vagina during a menstrual cycle

    Squirting, Squirter Female ejaculation, a provider who ejaculates

    SRS Sexual reassignment surgery

    ST Short Time

    STD Sexually Transmitted Disease

    Sting A female police officer poses as a prostitute to apprehend unsuspecting johns, or a male police officer poses as a john to apprehend unsuspecting prostitutes.

    STR Short Term Relationship

    Street action Prostitution that is solicited on public streets. Prostitutes (usually on foot) are picked up by Johns in motor vehicles. Sexual acts may occur in the vehicle, or at another agreed upon location

    Stroll Path frequented by street walkers

    Sugardaddy.com A classifieds-style website that men (sugar daddies) and women (sugar babbies) can meet one another for a no-strings-attached type of relationship, usually for money

    Summer Teeth Her teeth, some are there, some are not

    Sunshine, Sunny Without a condom (i.e. No raincoat)

    SW Street Walker

    SW Sex Worker

    SWOP Sex Workers Outreach Program, a non-profit company that provides services to prostitutes seeking help

    Sybian A mechanical sex device that is in the shape of half-barrel with a dildo attachment mounted in the middle

    SYT Sweet Young Thing

  • Take care of business Payment is made to provider. e.g. "She wanted to take care of business first"

    TAMP Therapeutic Asian Massage Parlor

    TCSS Talk Cock Sing Song

    Teabag Man squats and dips balls in partner's mouth

    TER The Erotic Review, a review board for clients and providers to screen and connect with one another

    TG Transgender

    TGTBT Too Good To Be True

    Throne Job Self-service hand job. Refers to an establishment that doesn't offer FS. The premises will only have a large chair or "throne" for you to sit on and masturbate while the woman dances for you.

    Tina crystal meth

    Tipping required Hidden charges, provider demands more than the advertised price in order to perform, or bargains hard for various services.

    TJ Tijuana

    TLD topless lap dance

    TLN Toda La Noche ("All the Night" in Spanish)

    TOFTT Take one for the team. In reference to a new, non-reviewed provider.

    Took one for the team A hobbyist reviews a provider who has no (or scattered) reviews. He was ripped off, or his experience was very poor. Ostensibly, he has helped save other members of the community (the team) from making the same mistake.

    TOS Take Out Service

    Tossing Salad analingus

    Translation, translator Condom i.e. "She spoke fluent french without a translator" = BBBJ

    Tri-F A devotee to the "Find them, Fuck them, Forget them" strategy

    Trick A sex act for money.

    Trick A man who patronizes prostitutes.

    Troll Rude and hideous person

    Trolling Posting thinly disguised ads in a discussion forum.

    Trolling The act of driving around looking for a prostitute.

    TS Table Shower

    TS Transexual

    TTA Tight Tan Ass

    Tuft Description of pubic hair.

    TUMA Tongue Up My Ass

    Turn tricks Prostitution

    TV Transvestite

    TVSW Transvestite Street Walker

    Two Call System For incall locations. Your first call is to set up the time and get the general directions on where to park. Your second call is made when you arrive to get the specific address / room number.

  • Umbrella Condom.

    Uncovered Without a condom

    Upsell The price changes once she gets in the room

    UTR Under The Radar, a provider who doesn’t mass-market advertise

  • Vet (someone) Screen them to make sure they’re legit and safe to see

    VFM Value For Money

  • WAH Wild Ass Humping

    Water Sports Urination play.

    Weeklies Alternative weekly newspapers. These often contain various adult service listings, including massage and escort advertisements. e.g. The Village Voice, San Francisco Bay Guardian, The Stranger.

    WF Wild Fuck

    WG Working girl. A prostitute.

    WK White Knight A poster who defends or "comes to the rescue" of a provider who has been reviewed poorly, regardless of whether the review is accurate.

    Whore monger One who habitually patronizes prostitutes. See urbandictionary.com

    With With condom (e.g. French with = CBJ)

    Without Without condom. (e.g. French without = BBBJ)

    WIR Would I Repeat, Would I Return, Would I Recommend

    WL Working Lady

    WOA Word of Advice

    Working girl A prostitute.

    WSW White Street Walker

    WTF What the Fuck? (I'm rather surprised by this)

  • X Kiss O Hug

    XOXO Kisses & Hugs

    YMMV Your Mileage May Vary, reviews aren’t always consistent, usually depends on how well you

  • 1/2 and 1/2 half and half, oral sex + full service

    411 information, details

    420 4:20 friendly open to smoking marijuana

    Call the date/meeting with a client, usually an hour or so

    Meeting the date/meeting with a client, usually for an hour or few hours

    Appointment the date/meeting with a client, usually for an hour or few hours

    Date a meeting with a client, usually for an hour or few hours

    Overnight a date that lasts the evening

    Weekend a date that lasts through the weekend

    Fly me to you (FMTY) when the client pays to fly the escort to him for a date

    Cut the percentage given to an agency, manager, booker, pimp for coordinating, screening, marketing, etc

  • $ $100

    $$ $200

    $$$ $300

    $$$$ $400

    $$$$$ $500

  • Date-Check A third party website that acts as a pre-screening service, but is more like a classifieds for providers and clients to connect and network

    ECCIE a review board for clients and providers to screen and connect with one another

    Preferred 411 A third party date check service where both providers and clients can be screened by the service. Then provide their ‘handle’ to potential clients and providers so they can view likes/dislikes of one another to ensure compatibility and screening him

    Review Boards An online database where clients and providers openly chat, advertise services, and read specific details about how a date with an escort might go

    TER The Erotic Review, a review board for clients and providers to screen and connect with one another

  • Agency A business/company that handles bookings, advertising, screening, and phone calls for escorts who use

    Call Agency An agency that typically employs hundreds or even thousands of escorts, who call-in and call-off, and a client can call and usually have an escort show up within an hour or so

    Massage Parlor A residential home, apartment or house, instead of a commercial storefront usually where sex acts can be purchased

    Boutique Agency An agency that typically does not use fake pictures, upsell, or rip guys off, more catered to repeat customers and more challenging to find. They are more likely to post on review boards or can be found through recommendations or referrals

    AMP Asian Massage Parlor, a residential apartment instead of a commercial storefront usually where sex acts can be purchased

  • Brothel A business establishment where men can stop in and pay for a sexual service

    House An underground brothel

    Incall You meet the provider at their place.

    Outcall The provider comes to you

    Hourly A hotel or establishment you can rent by the hour instead of paying for a full night - such as DayUse.com or HotelsByDay.com

  • AFF Adult Friend Finder (a popular USA dating website)

    AFF Asian Friend Finder (a popular Asian dating website)

    Backpage An online database where escorts post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort, typically faster service, lower prices, and many of the prostitutes are trafficked and/or managed by pimps

    City Vibe An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort

    Eros An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort

    Seeking Arrangements A classifieds style website that men and women can meet one another for a no-strings-attached type of relationship, usually for money

    Slixa An online database where escorts pay to post their ads, generally separated by region, and clients can “shop” for an escort

    Sugardaddy.com A classifieds-style website that men (sugar daddies) and women (sugar babbies) can meet one another for a no-strings-attached type of relationship, usually for money

  • National Blacklist A website where providers can report a dangerous client, rip-off client, stalker, etc. and be aware of activities that put providers at risk

    SWOP Sex Workers Outreach Program, a non-profit company that provides services to prostitutes seeking help