When you first start exploring BDSM you might not even know what you want to try. Instead of jumping right into something, if you take time exploring, talking, negotiating and INTERVIEWING one another, you’ll have a greater chance of fulfillment and success and these BDSM ideas will help.
QUESTIONS
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What do you want to FEEL?
- Teased
- Seduced
- Controlled
- Dominated
- Submissive
- Desired
- Excited
- Uncertain
- Nurtured
- On Edge
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What turns you ON?
- A Specific Body Part
- Fetish Clothes
- Stockings
- Heels
- Corsets
- Leather
- Gloves
- Fishnets
- Latex
- Bondage
- Spanking
- Nipple Play
- Cock and Ball Torture
- Cock and Ball Tease
- Edging
- Humiliation
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What is your level of EXPERIENCE?
- I’ve never done this
- I’ve seen this in movies
- I’ve watched this in person
- I’ve partook
- I’ve been the receiver
- I’ve been the giver
- I’ve done it all
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What are your limits?
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What is your level of trying something?
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What is your safeword?
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What are your limitations: physically, mentally, medications?
PLANNING OUT BDSM IDEAS
1- What did your partner say they wanted to FEEL?
2- What turns you on about that?
3- Choose 1-3 activities that turns you both on.
4- Lead up to the main activity in order from lightest to heaviest.
